Making It Plain

There is a time in everyone's life where you constantly hear the complaints of relationships. Either you hope it never happens to you or not to become so cynical  or you begin to wonder if the good ones your age have all gone. The idea of being so jaded as to think that men are all the same or that the good ones are already married, gone home to be with the Lord or about to be has to be a recipe to cringe. I allow patience to have her perfect work ( James 1:4 KJV ); because the alternative is listed above. When coming to the understanding that you can't trust anyone but God , I thought it was such an epiphany. Wisdom would continue to give me more nuggets and I would have the handle on finally being in a successful relationship. However, what happens is that while wisdom does what she does, life doesn't stop. People continue to change and one day you're hit in the face, like a brick hurled at full force. Those that had potential to be what you thought they would be, h

I don't think any of us asks where these raw feelings come from because we are so absorbed into trying to make ourselves feel better at all costs. This act of feeling better can be through shopping, writing, playing video games, blaming others, and/or using addictive substances to escape or numb the pain. If we survive, and only time could tell, we recall it not fondly but vaguely use it as wisdom to teach the younger generation to be cautious rather than guarding their hearts....and that would be wrong. So how do we turn this around, make a 180, or flip the script?   Believe to receive is what the Word says to do. Now wait! Before you suck your teeth and sign off as another religious cliche, keep reading. If nothing else, I have tried my best to be as frank and as honest as I can be for the Word of God to be applicable as He intended it to be. The truth being, you can read the letters of the bible all you know how, you can memorize each scripture and verse to impress whomev

 This is another myth that has seeped into the church. Whether it was idle gossip, regurgitated sermons that were not prayed upon or researched before serving to the congregation, or just plain ignorance, it is a reason to stir the slurry and find the truth to be set free. Now let’s begin where God saw Adam and said it was not good for him to be alone ( Genesis 2:18 AMP ). The solution that God decided upon was to create woman. Please go over that chapter of scriptures before sending me your angry emails. It was not my decision to make woman for man.... ok? Go to God with your rant. So, there she is. She is woman. What do you want her to do Adam? He yells out (in my mind), “...bone of my bone. Flesh of my flesh...” Was that an answer? Yeah, I won’t go through all of that again. If you would like to read the verses and my issues with what I have been taught about Adam, please go to this link here  and here . Nevertheless, the 2 of them together were to replenish the earth and continue